there comes a point in a relationship when fighting becomes the condition rather than the exception.. and suddenly it becomes the language of the relationship.. and the only option is to silently retreat into neutral corners..
- the story of us -
i guess the above situation is a lot easier to comprehend.. at least the existence of ‘fighting’ fortifies the couple’s belief that each of them has a point that they want the other to understand. but what do you do if only one wishes to argue her case, and the other simply refuses to engage in a sensible conversation? it’s not about being combative or choleric.. it’s about open communication, a desire to talk it over, iron things out.
avoidance is not a solution. ignoring the problem doesn’t make it go away.
and im getting tired of this. really.
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Do you think North Korea should rather sit down and talk with the rest of the world than have the US Navy Seal assasinate Kim Chong-il?
on this matter, ronald, i think i’d rather pass. i simply refuse to engage in a sensible conversation.
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